tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30358773.post4714926506211716616..comments2023-10-20T07:26:48.227-04:00Comments on Zuri She Wrote: A Gentleman's Guide to Approaching A Womanjendayihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08284491770040011453noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30358773.post-65952616484439215482008-11-14T11:34:00.000-05:002008-11-14T11:34:00.000-05:00I am a man and I agree with the guide when it come...I am a man and I agree with the guide when it comes to a higher calibur woman. The upper echilon of women tend to think highly of themselves and justify their equal by the manner in which they go about trying to know the female interest. My approach is somewhat subtle compared to the "corny conversation starter". I think body language, smiles, and gestures open the window of opportunity (call Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30358773.post-42503523148848397992008-11-12T17:11:00.000-05:002008-11-12T17:11:00.000-05:00Good advice. I did a "Nice Guy" post on HM earlier...Good advice. I did a "Nice Guy" post on HM earlier this year that a lot of guys seemed to have liked. Something I said there that I will add here is that the best way to break the ice is to do something chivalrous like offer up a seat, hold the door open, etc. Most women appreciate a man stepping up to the plate and being treated like a woman. <BR/><BR/>But anyway...something I think "gentleman" Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30358773.post-15833462384302283132008-11-12T16:20:00.000-05:002008-11-12T16:20:00.000-05:00Your "guide" is totally appreciated as you definit...Your "guide" is totally appreciated as you definitely touched on some very good points. I do have to say that I usually make attempts to engage a woman in conversation before I make an attempt to take it to the next level by keeping in touch. Just as women want to know some things about men, as a man, I also want to know something about a woman in efforts to see if there is more than air DJ PARALLELhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06636978191040963080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30358773.post-46963098260420864812008-11-12T10:52:00.000-05:002008-11-12T10:52:00.000-05:00I totally agree! I'm all for the genuine and crea...I totally agree! I'm all for the genuine and creative approach. I can't stand being on the phone with or out with someone I can't have a good conversation with. So, we might as well check for that up front. To me, a man gets the most points by actively engaging me in interesting convo and making me laugh. That will make me most interested in divulging the digits later.But maybe it's just me...https://www.blogger.com/profile/08555708938776611542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30358773.post-70639833851553002032008-11-12T02:15:00.000-05:002008-11-12T02:15:00.000-05:00Whenever a dude comes to me and pays me a complime...Whenever a dude comes to me and pays me a compliment and then immediately asks for my number, I always ask, why? Why should I give you my number? What are we going to talk about? Sometimes, not all the time, that can actually lead to a decent conversation. Not all men are built with charm, swagger, the level of confidence to subject themselves comfortably to critique of strange women.<BR/><BR/>Jenn Willhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06635683411105177599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30358773.post-80397901214949895722008-11-11T13:35:00.000-05:002008-11-11T13:35:00.000-05:00This is good advice. This goes along with the who...This is good advice. This goes along with the whole step your game up conversation that I've had with a few women. After a certain point women lose interest in the lines and the "game" and they want someone who is comfortable with himself and has a genuine interest in them. <BR/><BR/>Men could use this advice. But some men will always be boys.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30358773.post-1608272973150935452008-11-11T12:44:00.000-05:002008-11-11T12:44:00.000-05:00(I'm a guy)I'm feeling this one. You hit on some k...(I'm a guy)I'm feeling this one. You hit on some key points that guys need to pay attention to. You cant be so AGGRESSIVE! LOL!Be a little tactful. At the same time i really like the point of seeing that she is worth it. Everything that glitters isn't gold, so dont get caught up in a pretty face.Take it from me pretty faces can be major headaches. The last one was look for signs, if her girl is Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30358773.post-80479416835454602942008-11-11T12:37:00.000-05:002008-11-11T12:37:00.000-05:00I Love, love, love this guide! It's brilliant and ...I Love, love, love this guide! It's brilliant and I totally agree. Please attempt to glean something about me before getting my contact info. There's nothing more attractive than a man who's really interested in ME and not just my physical appearance. Men please attempt to go deeper, even if it is just a glimpse...GemisMyNamehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03173901112252450487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30358773.post-26447344488568879342008-11-11T12:05:00.000-05:002008-11-11T12:05:00.000-05:00:-) (me clapping my hand) i definitely AGREE! plea...:-) (me clapping my hand) i definitely AGREE! please have a genuine conversation at the end you might not like me or vice versa but at least it won't be a waste of gb space in your phone...<BR/><BR/>the older you get the more a conversation can tell a lot or not so much about a person....<BR/><BR/>so YES i agree! fellas have your OWN interview and appreciate the fact that we do too...but its allT.a.c.Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03764565798496512732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30358773.post-23254901725070391292008-11-11T12:01:00.000-05:002008-11-11T12:01:00.000-05:00Loves it! I agree wholeheartedly! Fellas, be more ...Loves it! I agree wholeheartedly! Fellas, be more creative--women love it when you are! I can't remember the last time I gave my number to the "I am very attracted to you and would love to get to know you better. Can I have your number?" guy. I think that worked in middle school mb high school, I'm over that...nowadays you'll most likely get the mouth to side wateva face.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com