Friday, July 07, 2006

A Man Who Finds A Wife Finds A Good Thing

So they say, well actually the Bible says that a man who finds a wife finds a good thing. A couple of callers were in disagreement yesterday on the radio regarding this very concept. The woman was very adamant to let her peer know that she didn't and doesn't need a man to take care of her. The man disagreed and said that women need to be taken care of because it is the man's job to pursue or find the woman and then provide for her. I didn't think either of them spoke to the essence of that scripture but as far as what they DID say, I was sort of on the fence.

Of course I have the whole independent woman thing going on, but I do agree that it's a man's responsibility to be head of the household and adequately provide for his family. Do I NEED a man? Well no, but God intended for man and woman to be together. If anything, I think more so that a man needs a woman. Lol. I mean, wasn't Adam the one who needed Eve as a helper?! =) Smile brothers!

5 comments:

T.C. said...

the debate of the our generation right?! LOL
We NEED each other...no way around it...not for material things...but for what GOD intended us to need each other for...

Anonymous said...

I agree with TC, we need each other. God has given us everything we need from the beginning and now. If man did'nt need women or vice versa he wouldn't have created the both of us. It's a beautiful thing when a man and a women can see eye to eye on things and compromise, not all but hopefully the majority. It's good to have a lil friction now and then ;)

j.a.c. said...

I think I need to clarify my post because I was told that it seemed as if I was saying that I do not and will not need a man. If that's the way it sounded then, I definitely need to relay that I can not wait for the day that I join a man in marriage to share the rest of my life with. Am I ok right now in my single-hood? Yes, but just as TC and Anonymous said, we need each other. My future husband will need me as I will need him. It's a wonderful, beautiful thing that will come in time.

T.C. said...

NO your post was clear to me...I was just saying that is the major debate...I think that you are clear...but maybe that's because I know you so I know that's not what you meant...I totally got your post...and I think that it was needed...keep doing what you do...homie

j.a.c. said...

yeah i know you got it T. you understood what I was saying. It was after speaking to anonymous that I realized that what I said could be taken two different ways. but you nailed it right on point with your first comment. keep teaching us all T!

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